Hi Paula...welcome to the site. There are a lot on here with the same problems...us faceless bods can give you support and advice.
Did you get baptised?? If not then no problem,just walk away. Don't worry overly...some don't shun if you did get dunked.
She informed me that basically, unless I regularly attended meetings etc, they would not give me a bible for him!
Load of Tosh!!! Don't know where they get that from!! I got one for my new born son in '88,and even though he is not a witness either,he still has that bible.
Hang in there,kid....you're not alone.